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有些时候其实对自己很怀疑,觉得身为老师,却给了孩子们一些错误的导向。比如给了他们太多自主成长的空间,甚至很多时候明明知道是错的,知道他们会摔跤,却还是狠下心不肯提醒。会在看到他们失意的泪水时有小小的难过吧,只是还是会一脸平淡的告诉他们,自己的路要自己走,跌倒了,爬起来再哭。

其实是看不得孩子们的苦痛的。就像最近常常看到以前毕业的学生们的日志和心情。听到他们花开的季节里,懵懂情愫的绽放和凋零。小小年纪的男孩女孩,原来也会寂寞,也会深爱,也会失落。这样的时候,我没有位置来给他们任何的忠告。我有我的苍白的青春,在那样的日子里,我依然记得我的心也曾那样的渴望,渴望一双以我为方向的目光。可是太多束缚,太多规则,不允许。如今,当我的容颜都已老去,却还有一颗躁动的心,因为遗憾不肯老去。我想这样的人生,是有缺失的人生吧。

可是,我仍然是矛盾的。因为不知道该如何面对更年轻的生命对爱情的向往。

大人们总是会对孩子们说,你们不懂爱情,因为你们还年轻。等到我终于也长成了大人,我发现,其实大人们更不懂得爱情。如果爱情真的如歌颂的那般单纯透明得像最纯净的水晶,那么就必须没有生活的附丽。所以8岁的时候,我爱你就是我能和你分享我仅有的一块糖,可28岁的时候,我爱你却变成能给我一栋房。当生命里不仅仅只有最初的爱情,爱情就变得复杂,市侩,廉价。

那些还可以做孩子的日子里,小小男孩和女孩,只要能够牵着手就是忐忑的甜蜜。甚至只是课堂上一次回眸,走廊里一次偶遇,操场上的偷偷的散步,放学后小纸条上的约会,都是很多年以后记忆深处的微笑。那些朦胧的感觉,那些年轻得过于脆弱的誓言,虽然终究会随着时光渐渐淡去,却总会在后来的某一刻被记起,被追忆,被珍惜。

我知道我的很多孩子们在犹豫,在伤怀。因为喜欢某个人,却得不到回应;因为喜欢某个人,却不敢表白;因为喜欢某个人,而这个人已经转身离去。可是,又有什么关系呢?得不到回应的爱,可以教会你付出也是一种幸福。不敢表白的爱,可以告诉你安静地守候在喜欢的人的身边也是快乐。得到过却最终失去的爱,可以让你成长,让你在遇到下一个你喜欢的人的时候更懂得珍惜。

其实,尊重自己的情感,尊重别人的情感,是对自己的人生负责的表现。喜欢一个人没有错,只要确定能够对自己,对对方有所交代。喜欢一个人不需要犹豫,但是必须确定能够保护对方和自己。

今天看到一个有点忧伤的女孩,一时担心就在她的空间里留下一段这样的文字:不一样的年龄会有不一样的悲伤和快乐。也许等到你来到我这个年纪,才会发现,曾经那些让你念念不忘的痛苦和难过,再提起来就像别人的故事。宝贝,我可以这样叫你吗?虽然没说过几句,也许你已经不记得我,但是仍然一直希望你可以开开心心的。花朵一样的岁月并不长,要珍惜。

春天来了,总有花朵想要开放。虽然有时候早春的天气不适合花儿的生长。其实,花开的一瞬间并不是无声,花朵展开的一刻,总有绽放之痛。青春里不可能只是快乐,就像不可能总是痛苦。

在年少的日子里遇到喜欢的人,如果可以牵手,就庆幸你的幸运;如果不可以在一起,就当他出场太早;在年少的日子里遇不到喜欢的人,更不必难过,那是因为你太优秀了,所以上帝安排了更出色的人,等待在你的未来。

我不知道该如何安慰这样的一些有点小伤口的心。我只能说我自己的感受,说出自己的一点小关心。也许今天的这些话语在很多大人的眼里是谬论,甚至不利于孩子的健康成长。但无论怎样,我希望我只是一个可以让孩子们信任的人,一个懂得在他们的立场上思考问题的人,一个愿意把大人们真实的世界和他们分享的人(尽管这样有点残忍)。

夜深了,我知道那个女孩还没有睡去,希望她能想通一些道理。喜欢一个人,不喜欢一个人,其实是自己的事。让自己的日子寂寞,让自己的日子快乐,其实也是自己的事。人生最快乐的事情其实不是得到,而是拥有过。

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