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二十几岁不会是人生最艰难的时候

(12-12-26 09:07)

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知乎上最近有个很热门的讨论,话题就是“二十几岁是不是人生最艰难的时候?”。下面是一些我觉得挺有意思的回答。

“本人女,28岁,硕士毕业四年,刚遭遇在一起七年的丈夫孕期出轨,离婚,自己带着个不到一岁的女儿生活。曾经的小女人,现在要扛起两个人的人生。艰难得无法想象。但这肯定不是我最艰难的时候。以后面对的困难我自己也没有办法想象,也不想去想太多,自己该尽的责任要尽,该做的事情要做,有种生就有种养。要快乐,珍惜亲人,享受生活。遇到合适的男人还要嫁,不要怕。高兴自己还能去折腾,去扛起来,还有人值得我去爱。男人们怕什么呢?”

“20多岁,没钱,没房,没车,要考虑自己的前途,考虑给另一半幸福,考虑父母。出去做事又没有地位,都有比你年龄大,级别高的人,一边教训你一边抢你的女朋友。这日子真艰难,过了20多岁就好了。这是我25岁前的想法。今年我26岁,我依然没钱,没房,没车,依然担心自己的前途,依然要考虑所有要考虑的事情。只是,我想明白了。这些虽然难,但绝不是最难的时刻。”


“最艰难的时刻,是你等到人生走完大半,才发现自己的内心挣扎,才跌落到艰辛的生活,才遭遇到人生的重大变故和失败打击。因为,那个时候,你的希望,你的可能,你的变数,已然不多了。”

“最艰难的时刻应该是放弃自己,放弃希望的那一刻,可能会发生在人生任何一个时刻,而不仅仅是二十多岁的时刻。如果你没有放弃,那么最艰难的时刻就不会到来,听起来有点像鸡汤。反正经历过很多那种坑爹的事情之后,很多都会看淡,没想象中的那么恐怖。”

“26-30是一段苦闷的历程,离成功仿佛太远,却又过了推倒重来的年岁,不妨放低自己的心态,踏踏实实、不计得失地做好手头的事。痛苦、挣扎是件好事儿,说明你还没有麻木。”

“昨晚夜游回家有幸踩了一坨狗屎,我的狗屎运也快来了。”

“借用叔本华的解释:我们在早年主要是通过诗歌、小说,而不是通过现实来认识生活。我们处于旭日初升的青春年华,诗歌、小说所描绘的影像,在我们的眼前闪烁;我们备受渴望的折磨,巴不得看到那些景象成为现实,迫不及待地要去抓住彩虹。年轻人期望他们的一生能像一部趣味盎然的小说。他们的失望也就由此而来。”

“七十岁疾病缠身的你会不会羡慕二十岁健康的我。——不会,因为七十岁的我可以是七十岁,可以是二十岁,也可以是十岁。本以为快乐不会长久,哪知一天比一天快乐。人生只不过是不断的选择,想办法玩得开心。”

二十几岁的年纪,我们羞愧于自己的一无所有,望着比自己年长一些的人们,家庭事业双双得意,总是羡慕不已。却不知那些比我们年长一些的人,数着早生的白发跟眼角不和谐的皱纹,忧心着孩子的课业,挂念着双亲的健康,心中怀念的却是十多年前球场边那个意气风发的少年。而事实上多少人感觉到的那份艰难,是源自于面对强大对手时实力悬殊而造成的恐惧,却并非是残酷现实所带来的无力感。毕竟在艰难这个借口下,有太多人一味埋怨,却逃避改变。


二十多岁的时候,我们以为这种日子会持续很久,以为眼前这个难关重要到决定生死。到后来,我们曾经以为根本就不可能迈不过去的门槛最终还是迈过去了,虽然也许是一路磕磕绊绊的。我们一直以为最艰难的总是当下,却发现人生从来不曾有最艰难,只会有更艰难。唯一还值得庆幸的是,所有打不倒你的都将使你变得更强大,所有打倒了你的也并没将你彻底击垮。

电影《这个杀手不太冷》里,小萝莉Mathilda问Léon:“ Is life always this hard, or is it just when you’re a kid? ”,Léon回答说:“Always like this.”你看吧,就算人生已经如此的艰难,有些事情还是需要揭穿。

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